Why Older Adults are Hesitant to Talk About Falling
Diet, exercise, alcohol consumption, that weird supplement you bought from a targeted ad- there are plenty of things in our daily lives we brush under the rug when we fear being judged. Sitting in the doctor’s chair can sometimes feel like sitting under a bright judgmental spotlight! It’s a dangerous thing to withhold information from their medical team, especially when prescriptions are involved, but fear and shame are powerful things. While we’re societally shedding a positive light on being more open and transparent, most of the active aging population just weren’t raised that way. They were taught to put on a brave face, share as little as possible, and hope to stay well. According to the CDC, more than 1 in 4 elderly people fall each year but less than half tell their doctor. It’s time we destigmatize the conversation around falls before fall deaths become normal.
Fear is the likely cause for withholding the truth about falling from a doctor or anyone in an older adult’s life. What does this mean? Will people respect me less or treat me as though I’m fragile now? If I tell someone, will I start to lose my independence and worse yet, have to move from my house to community living?